Hi I am new to this site. Happy I found it. My 16 yr old son been having problems with ads for about 7 yrs. We just found out he had it 4 yrs ago. I was confused on the signs. I just thought he was being hard headed at school. I have 2 other children that has adhd and they are 7&11. I medicated them and they are fine. But my 16 yr old, I was uneducated and waited until he was able to decline to take the meds and no school officials doctor or law enforcement family mentor encourage him to take his meds. He is so out of control. And he is going no were fast. I don't like being around him I don't talk to him. He is totally disrespectful I can't never finish a sentence or give him advice. I came to the point were I don't care about his were abouts. I tried to put him in job core and he told the lady he wants to go after the summer. And she said ok. But I didn't find out until 2 weeks later. He haven't been to school the whole year because of his behavior. I have did numerous things community out reach rewarding good behavior, pressing the starting over button and nothing is getting threw to this boy. I want to try to help him.