My 7 year old who has ADHD is planning to enter 2nd grade. He is smart but he lacks drive to try at anything including school work. His social and emotional development is far below his aged peers. His school advised to not hold him back but my husband and I disagree because there is a major gap and it will just grow bigger amongst his peers. I'm wondering what other parents have done with theirs kids and grade level and has it been beneficial if they are older now. Thank you!