What do you do when a friend want to enter into a relationship with you?
So I've got a couple of freindship groups at school, because sometimes I have difficulty being with people. One of the groups I find really relaxing when I have a bad day, they're just really genuinely nice people to be around. I was very happy being friends with them all but one of them has asked me out. I've refused but now I'm stuck.
So I explain about the depression? If I do, do I go into detail about self-harm/anorexia? I feel like I owe an explanation...
And selfish as it sounds I wish he'd never asked me. How can I sit and be care-free again? Was my behaviour too unguarded? But I don't like being constantly on edge.
Not where do I have to go to chill out? I'll just end up cutting more. I already want to because I feel guilty about this person. I didn't mean for him to like me.
Has anyone else found they aren't interested in relationships at all? I'm 18 and everyone else seems obsessed with them, I haven't been remotely intersted for 4 years.
So what do I do?