I have been through school, college , university and had to deal with something before I eventually found myself a really good full time job , in getting to this point I have had my parents’ divorce. My mother suffers from along term mental illness and is in care , I am currently her deputy for all her affairs. I don’t get on with my dad. During the time I left uni in search of the job i ran up so much debt for , I worked all the hours under the sun in a retail job I hated in which I got shocking pay for , during this time I lost my grandparents , my long term girlfriend. It took me 8 months after finally leaving university to find a job and during those 8 months I had to work a part time job i hated and volunteer just so i could gain the position I am in today. The break up from my long term girlfriend was the final kick this changed me into a different person , lots of drinking / fighting and not really caring about the consequences of my actions. Although I have now calmed my drinking down, and i continue to do well in my job. I cant get over my ex I have lost interest in the hobbies I had and I try to work as much as I can if I’m not working then I’m living for the weekend because its acceptable to have a good drink. My life has gone from having good friends , family and a loving girlfriend to working all the time and taking on responsibility no one my age should ever have to put up with. Things are not getting any better it’s just moments of highs then reality hits. What on earth has happened to me ?
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