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am roxy am 26 I just got back intuch with my 13 year sister after 7 year of not see her but am find so hard to talk to her and a blame my self for a lot of stuff that happened in my childhood and I don't no what to do or say I jst keep blaming my self and am find it hard I just don't no what to do

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Try and just talk, possibly she will be as apprehensive as you when you see her. Play it by ear.

Try not wearing you fears or concerns on your sleeve. Consider the now, the past may be better left at this time

(Edited by ThemysciraDrive, 9:29 8/12/16)

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Can I reach out to you and say - if things happened in your childhood, then you were a child (obviously!) and NOT TO BLAME. Please don't feel guilty for things that happened in the past. If you feel bad about something you did, then make a promise to yourself to not act that way again. That is all you have to do. That shows that you are sorry for what has happened and that you have learned from it. You obviously care about your little sister very much, so stop beating yourself up. Children are very resilient and often, what seems like a big deal to us, is not that big for them. Just get to know her again, one step at a time. I am sure that you will be a very positive influence in her life. With my very best wishes and love, Wendy x

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Hi Roxy,

Is it a case of this situation causing you to be depressed? Do you get any treatment for depression?

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