Desperate ...

[SPB3232]

... No one to turn to and no where to go! Can't take no more!!!!!!!

[Robbie138]

What is wrong ???

[EndlessPajamas]

Hi SPB3232. I honestly can't say that I know what you're going through because everybody reacts to things in different ways. However, what I can say is that you do have somewhere to turn. I understand that it must be difficult to cope with things that may be going on with your life and that you feel trapped. But please understand that we are here for you. Everyone on this website knows somewhat how you feel. These are people you can relate to, people you can open up to, people who you can trust. These people will never judge you no matter what. This is somewhere safe and anonymous where you can vent.

[SPB3232 in reply to EndlessPajamas]

Many thanks EndlessPajamas, think you banged the nail there ... TRAPPED ... That's exactly how I feel!!!!!

[SPB3232]

Feeling like a failure! Living with regrets in the wrong place with the wrong people. Health issues, can't work, can't claim benefits, no money ... life sucks!!! Need I say any more?

[Hidden]

Come in and talk to us x

[SPB3232 in reply to Hidden]

It's getting late and it's a long long story!! Maybe some other time soon.

[EndlessPajamas in reply to SPB3232]

This is a place where you don't need that mask to hide behind. There are many people here who care for you. Just look at everybody who is responding! I'd love to hear your story and try to help and if it makes you feel better I'll share mine too (though it isn't all that interesting). Keep in touch okay?

[SPB3232 in reply to EndlessPajamas]

I honestly don't know where to start ... It is so complicated!! However I shall work on it and get back to you, okay? I will of course keep in touch.

[SPB3232]

Believe me, I am!!!!!

[SPB3232]

Been realizing for a long time I've not been coping, just been hiding it for the sake of my pride!!

[Cycled in reply to SPB3232]

Don't worry about Pride, open up on here first, just tell it as it feels,we can all help break things down for you.

We have all been there and are here to help you

Try to think of just one positive thing and post it on here

Will look forward to seeing more

We are all here to help.

[Mya187]

I know how you feel as I feel the same, my depression always kicks in after a relationship break-up I feel like a failure, another relationship gone wrong. But you are not alone- our minds are very powerful. When we feel down we need to get out of that rut and focus on something, even if it is something small but positive. Don't worry about the past or think about what the future holds. Focus on the present and the here and now. One day at a time, you will get there.

[Blueshirt]

ALL i can say is that there are lots of us who feel the same way. If there was any happiness within me I'd happily give it all to you to save you. I'll just be relieved I'm sure you're a great person and things will get better fro you. Good luck

[Paris12]

What has happened

[paultryinabegood]

Hey spb I feel u, hope u r ok, though I no ur not, I got into debt, I work, 3 kids n married, I am in total disarray, I see life pass me by, things either hurt or really hurt, nothing less, I'm mentally ill, but then I saw a future..... It cost me something tho...... But I kept hold of that in my head, and I pushed n pushed n pushed until I got out of it, still got problems, but I like to try m help if I can, because people helped me wen I was hurting myself n suicidal, ytakin drugs n shit too cope, we're all here for each other, gid bless friend..... Paul