Update

[Iluvhorses]

Hey it's me again. I'm now in the homeless shelter and had a job interview today. Hopefully I'll get the job because my Dad changed the locks on his house so I can't get anymore of my stuff. He also cancelled the debit card that he gave to me. It was under his name.

[Celtic27]

Hi mbvu im sorry its come to you needing to go to a homeless shelter i really hope the job happens for you i guess the relationship with your father has broken down have you any reason or chance to reconcile with him not even moving back home or is it finished ! Im sorry but ive only recently noticed your post if im sleeping out of turn tell me ! God bless you david

[Iluvhorses in reply to Celtic27]

Oh my Dad is very narcissistic-like. I'm willing to go back if he changes by going to therapy. As of right now, I don't really want to talk to him. I won't cut him off completely. I just need a temporary break from him.

[Jill76]

Good luck on your job hunt! Blessings😊

[Maltesers11]

Hope you get the job too.

[lauren3189]

Iluvhorses Good luck with the job onwards and upwards x

[spykey Ambassador]

Hi mbvu

Really glad to hear you have somewhere to live now. Fantastic news about the job interview. Hoping & praying you get the job, you could do with a break & hopefully the job will give you that break, you deserve it! So will be saying a few prayers for you!

Good Luck. Take Care. spykey

[Photogeek]

Hi MBVU listen best of luck with the job, and I'm sure something will turn up, that was

A bit much of your Father you change the locks as legally you have every right to get your things. If you really need some of your stuff is there anyone like a Pastor or family friend who would go with you to your house to try and get your things

Although in fairness to your Dad I'm not surprised he cancelled your Debit card, as that would be what most people would do. Let the dust settle for a while and look after yourself, you are going to be fine. Plenty of people leave home much younger,

You sound like a strong girl with a good head on your shoulders. What age are you again ? Do you have any siblings ? Also where is your Mom in all of this? Now you may have explained earlier but I may have forgotten.

Take care and stay safe.

Hannah

[Iluvhorses in reply to Photogeek]

I'm 23 years old and my mother lives out of state. She lost custody of me when I was three because she was so depressed. She's in the exact same position as me only she's staying with someone.

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I'm very sorry to hear this. I really hope that you get the job and that you've got a roof over your head. Good luck and keep strong.

[Lizbett]

Changing the locks to me is dreadfully mean-spirited. To me, he's done the relationship more harm than good by doing that.

At least you're safe and hopefully will get a job soon. You have a bright future and you're free! Keep your eyes firmly on your goals and work towards them. Don't think about him. He made his decision by changing the locks. A childish and mean-spirited thing to do.

Best wishes and please, continue to keep us all posted.