Iam struggling to be honest as soon be ex husband is now dating someone else. We have only been separated in February which he asked for a divorce 2 days before my birthday. I still have depression and trying to deal with that. Going back to my ex husband well soon to be is being so horrible and had horrible messages and in the past he has hit me and yes people would say why did you stay and it's simple always thought him saying sorry would be the end. He told me he has told his new girlfriend about the past and he says she is fine what he done to me but some how I don't believe it. My family members don't know what he has done to me as I feel silly. He doesn't really see the children as he would rather see her and her children than ours which hurts. I know it's silly but I feel hurt that he is with someone else but I know deep down I would never take him back as he cheated on me and physically,mentally and emotionally abuse me but how do I get over this feeling?