Sorry guys, me again.
I currently live with my partner and his parents. We're moving out at the end of May into our own place (finally!). The problem is, she's not very open minded when it comes to mental illness. She thinks we all put it on and we should just "snap out of it". I've attempted numerous times to try and speak to her about it to get her to even remotely understand just how I'm feeling and how she could help me when I'm having tough days but, nothing works. She doesn't understand that when I'm feeling low I like t live in my bedroom due to the fact she constantly moans and has a go over nothing which makes me 1000% worse than what I feel.
Anyway, today is one of them days! My partner goes downstairs and makes a coffee, she shouts and screams at him calling me bone idle and lazy etc. I wouldn't mind but because I'm off work and when everyone else's at work, I blitz the house. I do the washing, washing up, cleaning, you name it even when I really cant be bothered, I do it anyway because I have to, to avoid that shouting match.
I don't know how to handle this situation because living here is making me worse. She expects us to drop everything what we're doing, cancel days out and trips out just so one of us can take her shopping. (there's nothing psychically wrong with her, she just cant be bothered walking so we have to drive her.) It really grates on me.
This is more of a rant than anything.