My Mum passed away just recently, my Brother went to the registrar today and the registrar refused to accept the hospital Drs cause of death! We as a family know the hospital have messed up and are trying to cover their mistakes, but we just want my Mum's funeral to be over with! Is that wrong? We don't want Her to be cut up due to a autopsy, we just want her to be laid to rest! The Hospital should have admitted their mistakes so we as a family can get on with our lives and grieve. I don't have any intention of trying to sue or anything like that,an apology would suffice and measures put in place so nothing like this can happen again! I am sitting here alone I keep breaking down in tears wondering if I should have brought Mum home with me even though she was ill before the fall and the wrong drugs being administered she was still a bright funny loving and still did her crosswords in minutes rather than hours! After she fell in hospital She did not seem the same she didn't do her crosswords or joke about like she did before then after St Cross Hospital gave her Penicillin knowing how it would cause her to go into Anaphylactic shock Mum no longer could stay awake she started slipping away we all knew she was dying but still it came as a shock when she did .The only thing good about Mum's death was the fact that at least the Family was with her my Brother and I holding her hands and stroking her forehead, I am sure she knew that she was loved and cared for! The Nurses on ward 40 at Coventry's Wallsgrave hospital were lovely and took great care of Mum. I thank them for that! I just wish I was a fitter person and had made more visit's to her before and after she became ill, we were very close my humour and personality is very similar to what Mum's was, I am really hurting but can't tell my Brother or Sisters what I am going through ,I am the big brother when I had my breakdown a few years ago my family have tried to keep bad things away from me they are very protective I want to tell them how I am hurting but can't I want to tell them I really give up. After Mum's funeral I will move again and not let any of my family know where I am so I won't have to grieve again am so sad the pain I feel my morphine does not make any better! Sorry I have nowhere else to put my feelings .and I do know others here understand what I mean
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