What signs do you notice when your partner is loosing interest in their relationship with you? I've been with my boyfriend almost 3 years. And he always lived with his parents and didn't have steady work for 7 or more years. Now he has a summer job, a new kitten and he never calls me back like he says he is going to. If I ever say anything about this he turns the tables on me every time. I am just not going to bother anymore. I recently went threw a major depressive episode by myself and he never even noticed. My workplace did. So now after a month of the doctor changing my medications I have go back very soon to see what is next. Maybe the way he treats me contributes to my depression. i was hoping this time I really had it right.