When I was younger I could take anything anyone could throw at me but at 75 I can't manage solving peoples problems anymore. No-one wants to hear about my problems but I am expected to hear theirs. I am suffering with nerves because of this. I have tried to ignore problems but all I get is how good I am to help. My home is suffering also my animals cos all I want to do is sleep. I am struggling to do anything but no-one sees this. What can I do. I just am not the type to be rude and tell them all to go away.