This isnt an easy thing to do but I often look at my life and see myslelf alone with few people to talk to about my problems. Its not always easy to see all those around you pairing off and you seem to be left on the shelf. Then on top of that dealing with people at work who seem to think that you are there to be sworn at an abused because they are under stress from their own job. Its as if im stuck and what ever I do never seems to be good enough of they change the goalposts after you have done the task. Its silly I know to allow these things to get to me but it does and then it feeds itself in my mind making things worse for me. Am I alone in this; does anyone else feel that society demands so much of us and when we dont achieve this to its deadlines we punish ourselves.