So I work with some very BIG characters. People of all shapes and sizes sometimes with very BIG opinions to say the least.
Im the sort of person who doesnt voice every single opinion of mine because who knows who I might offend in the process - Obviously Im myself around everyone but I dont feel the need to talk negatively about something 'I dont agree with' or 'I think should be done differently', I do this so I dont unknowingly hurt anyones feelings. Plus my deepest opinions about 'this and that' dont really need to be shared to an office full of people who I only know as my work colleagues. I'd rather talk about happy things and laugh instead of curse everything that I 'hate' for fun, because lets be honest - its not fun and they might be getting a kick out of it but its not fun, its negative.
ANYWAY... Some of the people have the most RIGID... and BIG opinions about things they know nothing about. They have no experience or knowledge in an area and they will freely word vomit all over it. It just annoys me!!!!! Some things that they say are really offensive but they pass it off as ...'BANTER'... I dont actually know how they get away with it! Alot of the things a few people say are really quite offensive and bad mannered. I find it hard to deal with on a daily basis. If I need to stick up for myself I know how to and I can do that easily... but the general style of conversation is just so pathetic... Its like do you not have anything else to talk about apart from everything thats 'bad'??? People make problems for themselves out of nothing because they constantly turn it into a bad situation!!
These are just my daily thoughts.