I just wondered if anyone had been affected by a narcissistic parent? I have suffered with anxiety on and off for many years. I finally have had the realisation....... my mother has been the root cause!!! It is only now as I am a fully grown adult that I have reached this conclusion. For many years I was subjected to situations whereby I would dare not to question or criticise my mother's actions. She controlled me.
I have taken the decision to break free from her and do not speak to her anymore but I wanted to share this latest correspondence from my birth mother.......
" Well done b****.....I see you have ensured we cannot have any contact with ***********.....or rather you are denying her right to have contact with us!
But dont worry I will get past you....maybe I will see you in court.
I will make sure she knows how you cut her off from everyone she loved.And by the way have you told ******* yet how many times you were married
It might give him a clue about how long he will last!
"You leave me with only one regret...that is I did not drown you at birth. What you have done to your dad and me shows what a heartless **** you turned into.
Rot in ****....I hate you."
I would value any feedback from anyone out there who can relate to this condition.