What am I

[mrsfinkley]

Everyday I feel like I'm waking up to die or I feel like someone out to get me or talking about me I feel like I need to please everyone everryday im sad just waiting to die bec that's what my body feels like i been looking for a job for two years and still have gotten a call what's wrong with me

[Suzie40]

Perhaps you've been looking in the wrong places, or maybe you need to put a different kind of effort in? Get some training in something completely new. A part time college course, or evening class, would not only getter your chances of finding paid employment, but would also address some of your depressive symptoms x

[mrsfinkley in reply to Suzie40]

Even when I was working my mind would just tell me and I'm still not good enough I think I'm just letting my past haunt me

[Hidden]

Hi I have been out of work for 4 1/2 years now and can't find work I can do. Most skills are transferable so have a think what your skills are ie get on well with people, good at organising etc. and see if you can think of other jobs where you could use them. Good luck. x

[mrsfinkley in reply to Hidden]

Thank u=)

[thrillseeker]

There is nothing wrong with you... The thing is I know where your coming from because from the age 13 my family moved to a new house having brain damage I went down hill I wouldn't accept drinks my mum would make me I wouldn't eat unless it was toast I went through hell because I would think that also people was looking at me an out to hurt me no am 38 I Still feel the same way but you have to know that people aren't out to get you think to your self I find this works people aren't out to get you they don't know you and they could be thinking the same thing there out to get me and hurt me think positive look around you while your out I bet no one is looking at you an if they are its because they are maybe thinking wow she's nice an you need to retrain your way of thinking I don't let things well I try not to let things get to me I have found that It's hard some times

An hey sweetheart positive thoughts x

[mrsfinkley in reply to thrillseeker]

Aww I'm sorry to hear that and it's so hard from me not to I try

[thrillseeker in reply to mrsfinkley]

Hey it maybe hard but you must want to feel better an so on... Life is hard at the best of times and I can't say it's easy because it's not the thing is you just have to start with one thing so that you don't fail and the point of all this is your wellbeing but never giving up retrain your mind to how you feel because this will be making you feel like your not worth the time I would love for just once my gp would listen to me and then he would see the thing here is becoming a stronger person I know lifes not been easy to either of us but looking back on your life there is something that bothered you an made you feel like you do now your not alone sweetheart there is loads of us that suffer with this and thinking were not worth it or people are out to hurt us but there clearly not its our minds working over time an so on positive thoughts sweetheart keep your head up high x

[mrsfinkley in reply to thrillseeker]

Thank u so much =)

[thrillseeker in reply to mrsfinkley]

Your welcome sweetheart

[CarolineLondon]

A question if you're still here MrsFinkley....

Money is no object, you've been born into landed gentry and you can do any and I mean ANY work in the world you like, any job, just for the fun of it.

Whats the job and why do you want to do it?

Just a little fun and you need not play if you dont want to, but I am genuinely interested.

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[mrsfinkley in reply to CarolineLondon]

I want a job because I feel like I'm a piece of s*** without it money or not I live my life based on everybody's judgement for what I've been doing what I wanted to 7 that I just found out

[CarolineLondon]

MrsFinkley I can see you're angry and life often isn't far but we make of it what we can and Im sorry things are so bad for you right now.

I was just trying to get you to focus on what it is that you want to do, what job would engage you, what job would you be interested in? Often we speak of what we hate, can't put up with, endure, but forget to say what it is we 'actually' do want, what we enjoy, what is good.

It might be hard for you to plan something good for the future, something to work towards, even if that's very slowly at first, without knowing what it is that may make you happy.

Have a think, allow yourself to day dream, if money were no object what job would you really enjoy?

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