After monday's incident with my little boy and feeling like the worst mum ever i had asked my fiance not to say to his mum and that i would tell her when i see her. I found out yesterday that he phoned and told her anyway. I was supposed to be going to my fitness classes tonight and he was gonna look after the kids but he has now said that hes gonna get someone to look after the kids as he has the pool tonight. Thats after him being out mon, tues and wed night too. It has been a tough past week for me with early rises cos of our unsettled 13 week old and my nearly 5 year old daughter who has been playing up big time. All i wanted was some time to myself tonight but i dont want the kids getting looked after unless it is necessity. We rely on his mum a lot and i dont want to abuse her help when we dont need to. My time of the month is due and he made out that i was going off my head because of pmt and he called me a schizo of all things knowing what i go through on a daily basis. He also made digs about me running to my dad all the time when i clearly dont. I told him i'll be going to my classes and he said well i'll be getting the bairn watched and you get someone to watch your bairn (my daughter isnt his). I just feel that this family man crap is only when it suits. My son just woke up at 6am and my fiance got up made him a bottle and then woke me up to give him it as he has work today? He sat and watched nearly a whole series of prison break yesterday while i had to take the kids for a food shop. Am i deluded or am i getting no help at all? Getting a bit cheesed off with him to say the least. He might as well be a part time dad for all the help he gives me. I am running on empty and really struggling at the mo. Sorry for rambling on x
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