Hi I am looking for advice and hoping this is the right channel to go down! I am a healthy 31 year old man, recently engaged and about to buy my first house with my fiancee, however for the last couple of years I have found it increasingly difficult to get excited or look forward to any part of my life. I feel that I am at a major turning point in my life but instead of feeling either stressed or excited I feel nothing. I am very happy in my relationship, but my partner has recently started commenting on my lack of interest in this part of our lives, and a difficulty in communication between us, and it is causing arguments. While I wouldn't say I am unhappy, and can't honestly say I am enjoying my life. When I am not at work I just want to do nothing. I am having difficulty explaining how I am feeling to my partner as I don't want her to worry. I have done some research online and tried reading self-help guides but I just don't know where to start. Should I go to the doctor? I've seen many comments online from people being ignored by their GP and I don't want to waste peoples time (I work in a pharmacy and know how busy professionals in this industry are). I feel almost like I want someone to read my mind and know how I am feeling so I dont have to say it. Lately (the last 6 months) I have also noticed I am a lot more emotional day to day. Apologies for the rambling post any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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