I was diagnosed with Bi-Polar disorder 4 years ago and have bouts of depression and mania but i have to say it's more depression than mania. I used to frequently cut myself, drink a lot and found it hard to eat anything most days. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and it's been the happiest two years of my life. Since getting with him I've stopped cutting, began eating normal, regular meals and gave up alcohol.
He's just recently got his dream job and its means he'll be moving away and we wont be able to see each other as much. I know it's something he's always wanted to do, but he if takes this job i don't think i could stay with him. Just because he seems to love me when he's not busy but when he is, he doesn't care. He's broke up with me once before, because he got a new job and was "too busy" with his new job and new friends. I've spoken to him about this and he doesn't seem to be bothered that we'll have to break up. All he said was "If we do break up i don't want it to be on bad terms". I also just don't understand why he would want to do this knowing that there is a possibility we would have to break up. I've given up so much for him, just so we could be together, I gave up my dream job, pretty much my social life as well as other things and he's never given anything up for me. If i was in his position i wouldn't take the job and everyone i know has said the same. I just don't think he loves me and i think i'm holding him back from his dream job and from finding his true love. But I just dont want to let him go and i fear if i do i'll go back to the way i was with the alcohol and cutting. I've already started cutting again with this whole situation. I know there is a chance it could work out when he moves but its unlikely and i dont want to be in a relationship where im constantly worried that he's going to leave me.
I just dont know what to do