Been married 17 years. This year has been difficult. Unable to sell house, my parents splitting up, his mum being diagnosed with dementia, my disciplinary at work, he's just had a carpal tunnel op plus all the usual stresses that 4 kids bring. We had a long talk last night and it turns out that he has been feeling fed up and unhappy for years. He doesn't know if its him or the marriage that's making him feel like this. He has no hobbies himself and resents mine. He is always stressing about money and finances. He's now talking about moving back to where we came from. His mum has depression, could hehave it too? To be honest I'm totally gutted. I knew things weren't fantastic but I didn't know he felt this bad. I feel like the worst wife ever.