Breakup

[healthyhelp]

I went through a breakup with a long term boyfriend a long time ago and a guy was there for me the whole time and he was the sole reason I didn't slip back into a full depressive state. The other guy and I ended up being together and the other day he decided it wasn't working anymore out of the blue. I now don't know what to do because everything's hit me all at once and I can't see myself ever being happy because I truly believe he's the love of my life. We have recently been fine with each other but he is convincing himself that we haven't probably as I have been less physical with him over the past 2 weeks. He said we were fully done (over text!) but is now saying just at this moment in time. I don't know what to think or do but I know that I'm never going to be happy again as I'd placed it all in him because I trusted we would stay together.

[chloe40]

Hi healthyhelp

Sorry to read about your breakup. Sounds to me that he wasn't the person you thought he was after all, he if wants to break up after being less physical for 2 weeks! well I think that says it all. The important thing is to take care of you, have some 'me time' and practice self care.

It will be difficult for a while but focus on yourself.

Chloe

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You will be happy again right now it doesn't seem like it cause you feel like this person was the one but luckily for you there are billions of people in the world and he was probably just the first stop to getting to your true love. You have to find peace and happiness with yourself first. Breakup suck but over time your get over them and move on...