Just a very sad day

[nat55zt]

So I had a FET od April 12th. 5 day morula. Doctor said it was developing a little slow but still thought it had a decent chance. I wasn’t expecting much and I had some bleeding 10 days after the transfer so I was convinced that it didn’t work. I was as mentally prepared for failure as you can be. Imagine my surprise when on test day there was a strong positive and Clear Blue test went from 2-3 to 3+ last Sunday. Just enough of positive signs to start feeling happy and hopeful. What a fool. I am currently bleeding. Been there done that so I know what it means. This baby would have been so loved. Can’t stop crying. Why couldn’t he/she stay? Not fair. I don’t even know why I am writing this. Just don’t know what to do with myself right now.

[Doodlebug23]

So sorry to read this. You know your body, not I know lots on here have experienced bleeding during early pregnancy x

[nat55zt in reply to Doodlebug23]

I also lost all of the pregnancy symptoms and I am cramping so I doubt this can have happy ending. But I would like to congratulate you for your pregnancy. I saw your posts a few weeks ago and was so happy for you. It takes a strong person to go through all that.

[Doodlebug23 in reply to nat55zt]

Thankyou. My symptoms have been on and off too though tbh. And I’ve had cramps. I’ve got everything crossed for you, please keep us posted x

[nat55zt in reply to Doodlebug23]

I will.

[Doodlebug23 in reply to nat55zt]

💛

[ecoexplorer]

So sorry to hear this, can they scan you to see what's going on? Hope you can find either the early pregnancy unit or the clinic helpful in this time. Sending gentle hugs.

[nat55zt in reply to ecoexplorer]

Thank you. I will call my doctor tomorrow and try to get an ultrasound. I have viability scan scheduled for next Monday but that is not really helpful right now. I wrote them an email today but no one replied.

[CyclingAddict]

So sorry to hear this. I would recommend visiting your early pregnancy unit just to check. I had a lot of spotting in the first several weeks and then very red and heavy bleeding around week 6. My pregnancy symptoms were fluctuating a lot during that time and had actually subsided for a little bit. Turned out to be a ruptured blood sac which caused the bleeding, which is apparently common after a FET and doesn't harm the baby. After all those scares, I'm now 17 weeks pregnant with a little boy. Of course, you know your body. But I would urge you to continue your meds until you know for certain. Really hoping it's just a scare like I had and everything is OK. Sending you luck and baby dust x

[nat55zt in reply to CyclingAddict]

Thank you! I am still taking the meds and I will try to get scan done tomorrow. Just in case I guess. Cramps worry me even more than blood. I had some spotting with my successful pregnancy but I never had any cramps. I feel exactly as I did with my first miscarriage.

It is so amazing to hear that everything turned out well for you. I wish you happy pregnancy.

[Sweethear]

so sorry for all you are going through I hope all works out well

[nat55zt in reply to Sweethear]

Thank you.

[Citizenerased83]

So sorry to hear your news and sending you hugs. I hope you can get a scan quickly and it's good news. You can get a private scan if needed, if you do a Web search for places that offer it. Xx

[nat55zt in reply to Citizenerased83]

Thank you. I have scan scheduled for tomorrow morning.

[Citizenerased83 in reply to nat55zt]

Fingers crossed for you xx

[Twiglet2]

I’m so so sorry I’ve been in the exact position and had a misscariage but also been in this position and went on to have my son that time hopefully you can get scanned really soon so you know for sure what’s happening I’m thinking of you xxx

[nat55zt in reply to Twiglet2]

Thank you. I am so happy that you had good outcome with your son. I am hoping for a miracle at this point.

[MyLittlePinkness]

Aw I am so so sorry to read this. There’s very little to say that will give comfort for this. 💕 It is just unfair and heartbreaking 💔. Take care of yourself, cry as much as you need 💕

[nat55zt in reply to MyLittlePinkness]

Thank you ❤️

[Kate-92]

I am so very sorry to read this, My heart goes out to you & there is little that anyone can say that will provide any comfort x Hopefully you are able to get a scan / seen as soon as possible to give you some answers, sending lots of love x

[nat55zt in reply to Kate-92]

I have scan tomorrow morning. While I am scared I am also glad that this uncertainty will end and I will know for sure.

[Kate-92 in reply to nat55zt]

It’s the not knowing that’s the worst & the contemplation of any outcome x I pray it’s not what you think 🙏🏼

[MyLittlePinkness in reply to nat55zt]

Good luck for your scan 💕

[Marley15]

sending you lots of love xx

[nat55zt in reply to Marley15]

Thank you!

[alma88]

Fingers crossed for you, bleeding not necesarry means miscarriage but you’ll need a scan to clarify( I was less fortunate but I have seen a lot of succesful cases here with bleeding )so wishing you best, try to stay positive and not to stress to much there’s nothing you can do about it. x

[nat55zt]

Hello all! Thank you all for good wishes and support. It means a lot. So I just had a scan and it was good and bad news. I saw the baby and heard/saw its heartbeat. The baby is measuring just right and seems to be doing well. However there is a big hematoma next to the baby. My doctor put me on a bed rest, upped my dosage of progesterone and gave me some magnesium supplements. And so the waiting game begins. Hopefully the baby wins not the hematoma.

[MyLittlePinkness in reply to nat55zt]

That it wonderful news, baby and heartbeat 💓, keep resting…