pregnancy update

[NylaCAT]

On Tuesday I was told that my pregnancy is a miscarriage. I chose to let my body naturally expel the pregnancy tissue nothing has happened yet. I was upset when I found out but since I'm not married and I've only been dating my partner for six months I've been coping okay. I ordered a script for birth control I'm scared of getting pregnant again when I'm not ready but also of having fertility issues

So I don't know what's going to happen next. I'm having some anxiety about my health I think that's why I chose to get some testing done and after the miscarriage is done I will do a fertility test. I always feared that having stress from anxiety was secretly harming my overall health.

I'm just trying to stay calm. I also had a death in my extended family a suicide. My squad leader was shot by the police he is still alive. Also, my Dad didn't want to be my boyfriend today when I asked. I don't want any of this to cause prolonged stress but I'm just so tired of being hurt by life. Pain and suffering never end.

[Tellmeaboutit]

hey there NylaCat. (Cool name. meow). First of all very sorry to hear about all that’s happening to you. Please keep writing to us here if it helps. I had a couple thought about your post..

You should consider the D&C if nothing happens on its own soon. There’s a slight risk of complications if you dont.

Fertility test doesnt make any sense for you. You know you can get pregnant.

Birth control does make sense if you’re going to be active. And protection from stds if you’re going to have more than one partner.

And I really didnt understand this part: “My Dad didnt want to be my boyfriend…”

Is that what you meant to say??

[CLB1125]

I am so sorry about your miscarriage. I hope it passes quickly for you. You are having a healthy attitude about it. Stress can affect us in many ways. I’m sorry about everything negative going on for you right now. We are here to listen and support you.

[NylaCAT in reply to CLB1125]

Thanks. I just feel so stressed out.

[blackcat64013]

Hi Nylacat,I am sorry that you have more than enough on your plate at the moment.

I am a firm believer that your body speaks your mind. If we can learn to tune into our bodies we learn so much about stress and our emotions.

I think you have taken the right steps to look after yourself first. Well done 🐈‍⬛

[NylaCAT]

I meant to say my dad didn’t want to MEET my bf omg